The coming of age of children…translated…
When I was sorting through my youngest daughter’s toys to give away to a neighbor, a box of Chinese chess got my memories going.
Back when my youngest was born, I was already, an older woman. Got my maternity leave set, started as a full-time mother. After my husband and my eldest daughter went out to work and to school, it was me versus my infantile youngest
By month seven you sit up, by eight, you start crawling, by nine months, start teething, at around eight months of age, I’d mopped the floors of the hallways clean every morn, put my daughter down onto the floors, for her, to exercise in crawling around. She had a huge diaper on, drooled, slowly, crawled, forward, it’d reminded me of the slowly moving Komodo dragon. It’d been told, that as Komodo bit the preys, it’d not, hurried to chase them down, because as the biting happened, the toxin was in its saliva, and the prey will eventually become weakened by the toxins to escape.
from this…photo from online
And, because my eldest had, swallowed her strawberry shaped hairpins into her stomach while I wasn’t watching her, I’d, cleaned off the hallways completely. As my youngest started, making her rounds, she could find, nothing, she’d, drooled on, looking around her, like she was, searching for that, prey. I’m thinking, that my feet were what she saw the most, but, my feet weren’t worth her bite.
But, history is always, surprising.
“She’d made it into her older sister’s room while I was on the phones mom. When I’d found her, she was, chewing and enjoying that rubber band! Look, this is the remains of the broken piece of the rubber bands she’d chewed up and swallowed!”, I’d told my husband who was coming in after work.
Because we’d believed, that our youngest didn’t swallow too much of the rubber band into her systems, and she was breathing normally, with huge appetite, my husband believed, that she will, eventually, poop out the rubber band, and we’d, let it happen, naturally.
almost UP! Photo from online
Because the tiny primordial creatures still can’t understand human words, there’s no way to reason with her. Other than mopping harder, I’d dragged the traditional vine crib next to the phones, when she is crawling around, and someone called, I’d, picked her up, placed her into her crib, talked on the phones, and watched what she was doing. The crib was, fully, corralled, and, being imprisoned angered my young child, then, I’d, handed her a box of Chinese chess to play with. As she’d observed the pieces fully, she’d started, picking up the pieces and throwing them around, with her arms and legs gaining more muscles, she could now, straighten her self upright, and, the trajectory was, farther, and farther now.
And that’s how I’d, managed through my youngest daughter’s, primordial, era.
So, this showed the developments of the infant, the infant puts everything into her/his mouth, because that’s how the infant gets to know the world, and, as parents, we would worry, what the HELL did my child swallow? And we’d, become, too worried, and, we may prevent them from touching, for their own, safety purposes, but by preventing them to put whatever it is they come into contact with into their mouths, we’re, depriving them of how they know the world, through their, oral sensations, and if these stages of earlier childhood developmental milestones weren’t met correctly, then, problems would surface later on as we became, adults, like Dr. Sex stated.
to finally, this! Steadying themselves with furnitures to learn to walk around…photo from online
So, rather than preventing young infant children from putting things into their mouths, just allow them to grab whatever they can get their hands on and have a taste, because, by becoming overly protective won’t do them any good. And, the children will go from all fours, to standing on twos, unsteadily, then, they will take that very first step, and before you know it, they will be, running around for you to, chasing them everywhere, because that, is how children should grow.